above is a photo of Shirley freaking out...
So have you ever gone wedding dress shopping with Shirley Cruz soon to be Colpo??? I have. It was a glorious and beautiful day... until we found “the one.” I knew it was the one. Emily knew it was the one. The consultant knew it was the one. Shirley Cruz soon to be Colpo just couldn’t say the words I do to her perfect dress. There is no magic formula to picking the perfect dress, but I do have a few guidelines to helping you make the decisions.
There is no set number of dresses you have to try on before making your decision. It can be 1, 3, 8, or 29. It doesn’t have to be any certain dress. There isn’t any need to go to 4 dress shops if you find your gown at store 1, but if you don’t find it keep on keeping on. I purchased the 2nd dress I tried on in the 1st store. Just don’t be afraid to buy your dream dress because you feel like you can’t buy the first dress you try on.
There’s no reason to be scared to say yes... to the dress. It’s not going to bite you. It’s a dress. Stop acting like a child Shirley. I mean...
Don’t be afraid to try on a few more after you’ve found the one. The world will keep spinning if you decide to still go to your next appointment. The point is to not overwhelm yourself with hundreds of dresses when you are pretty sure you have the one. But don’t be afraid to put on one that you really liked or to try on a few more just to make sure. If you really still feel like it’s not perfect, then you may need to reevaluate your game plan. Or maybe you just need to take a breather (see next rule).
It’s okay to sleep on it. If you really feel the pressure and just aren’t sure. I mean it’s a lot of money for a dress. And I swear, unless you are on a serious time crunch, one or two nights is not going to make a difference. I know this because I worked at a wedding salon... Well, I sat at the front desk... I may or may not have gotten fired from that job... I’m not still bitter about it.
Don’t keep looking after you purchased the one. Listen up!! There are always going to be stunning dresses out there in the world and if you keep looking for the next best thing then you will drive yourself batty. Think of it this way, you found the perfect guy, so you stopped... at least we sure hope so!!! So the same applies for the dress. Once you got it, go with it.
above is a photo of a blissfully happy and confident Shirley
And don’t forget, they are wedding dresses and they are all beautiful. So yes, you are going to like a ton of gowns... But when it’s the one, you will absolutely know.
Lauren